Adolescent Sexuality by Dr. Karen Rayne

This blog is an on-going conversation about adolescent sexuality, and all of the nuances and social issues inherent to the topic. I believe…that parents have to talk to their kids about sex…that everyone has sex, and should therefore know about sex…that sex is not all bad, even for teenagers. Read more on what I believe in my This I Believe page.

 

This American Life Episode 341: How to Talk to Kids

This weekend’s edition of This American Life is a must-listen for anyone with kids or teenagers or anyone who ever interacts with kids or teenagers. Here’s what they talk about:


A raunchy comedian gets booked on a tour…of kids’ sleep-away camps. A middle-aged woman grapples with right and wrong in talking to her teenage daughter about her sexuality. Plus, other stories of adults trying to learn the language of children.

They start out talking with kids about inept adults’ attempts at starting conversations. Scroll down below the picture, and there’s a link for a free download of the episode.

Go take a listen, and then come back and let us know what you think - good and bad - in the comments.

Filed under : funny, parenting, relationships
By karenrayne
On October 8, 2007
At 11:44 am
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Funny safe sex

This is just too funny! The original site has the image animated - which is, of course, even funnier.

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By karenrayne
On September 27, 2007
At 11:35 am
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Zits by Jerry Scott and Jim Borgman

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By karenrayne
On September 18, 2007
At 11:22 am
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Zits by Jerry Scott and Jim Borgman

Zits is my favorite comic strip. Scott and Borgman seem to be able to tap into something about teenagers that appeals to both parents and teens - something very difficult to do. This one is from last Thursday, August 23rd.

On an off-topic note, tonight is the full moon. Step outside and enjoy it with the ones you love.

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By karenrayne
On August 27, 2007
At 11:21 am
Comments : 0
 
 

Spider-Man and Planned Parenthood team-up, 1970’s style!

Yep, here’s a real treat folks. Marvel Comics and Planned Parenthood teamed up in 1976 to publish a comic book on safe sex. The villain is an alien who wants teenagers to pop out babies so he can steal them and take them back to his home planet as slaves. To further his plan, the villain teaches the teenagers of American falsehoods about pregnancy and pregnancy prevention, lulling them into having rampant, unprotected sex. Here’s the villain providing sufficient exposition for the purposes of the story:


Spider-Man manages to save the day just in the nick of time, taking out a whole slew of guards and the evil alien to boot.


The comic is followed by a delightful page that tells the readers about pregnancy, VD (when did they stop using that term?), masturbation, and homosexuality. Only some of the information is still good information – but I suspect this comic had the potential to positively influence young boys in the 70’s.


But really, it’s worth reading all the way through this 18-page gem on Andrew Fargo’s blog.

Thanks to Radikelsey at Fun with Feminism for the link.

Filed under : birth control, funny, safe sex
By karenrayne
On July 31, 2007
At 12:13 pm
Comments : 2
 
 

A good weekend activity

This was a young woman’s masters thesis project. She and her boyfriend are playing a video game. The controls are on their underwear.

Here is one reason Wired Magazine liked it:

“Lighthearted and playful, the invention nevertheless has a serious side. With it, Jennifer acknowledges the seductive nature of video games and the deleterious effect a passion for games can have on relationships. Yet ’stop gaming’ is hardly a solution.

It’s like firemen. You can’t fall in love with a fireman and then ask or demand that he stop fighting fires, even if your intentions are good. You can’t fall in love with a gamer and expect him or her to give up gaming to spend more time with you.”

I think there are great opportunities here for teenagers…”No, mom, we were just playing video games…” can take on a whole new meaning…

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By karenrayne
On June 15, 2007
At 6:16 pm
Comments : 0