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	<title>Comments on: Sexual harassment is bad!  (Wait&#8230;what is it again&#8230;?)</title>
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		<title>By: karenrayne</title>
		<link>http://karenrayne.com/2009/05/26/sexual-harassment-is-bad-waitwhat-is-it-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4634</link>
		<dc:creator>karenrayne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 16:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Keely, I am so aware of how abysmal parent turn out is in so many of our schools!  I occasionally work with current teachers who are getting their master's degree in a summer/online program at UT, and I hear the sad stories!

However, the thing to remember is that the parents who are disinterested - who would not come to a parent education class on sex ed - are often the ones whose children need the most sex education.  Parents who feel strongly about it enough to come to a parent education - well, they are far more likely to be having the conversation with their kids at home, and so for them to make the choice to opt their kids out of a school-based program is generally more reasonable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Keely, I am so aware of how abysmal parent turn out is in so many of our schools!  I occasionally work with current teachers who are getting their master&#8217;s degree in a summer/online program at UT, and I hear the sad stories!</p>
<p>However, the thing to remember is that the parents who are disinterested - who would not come to a parent education class on sex ed - are often the ones whose children need the most sex education.  Parents who feel strongly about it enough to come to a parent education - well, they are far more likely to be having the conversation with their kids at home, and so for them to make the choice to opt their kids out of a school-based program is generally more reasonable.</p>
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		<title>By: Keely</title>
		<link>http://karenrayne.com/2009/05/26/sexual-harassment-is-bad-waitwhat-is-it-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4625</link>
		<dc:creator>Keely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 02:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I worked in a special education classroom that did "resource" teaching for about 60 students a year.  Granted, special ed is notorious for dis-interested parents; but guess how many parents would come for parent-teacher night.  We would be lucky to see 5 :(  Your goal is beautiful, but I just don't see the average parent showing up for sex ed! LOL  And you are right, without the parents being educated, there will not be good reactions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked in a special education classroom that did &#8220;resource&#8221; teaching for about 60 students a year.  Granted, special ed is notorious for dis-interested parents; but guess how many parents would come for parent-teacher night.  We would be lucky to see 5 <img src='http://karenrayne.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  Your goal is beautiful, but I just don&#8217;t see the average parent showing up for sex ed! LOL  And you are right, without the parents being educated, there will not be good reactions.</p>
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		<title>By: karenrayne</title>
		<link>http://karenrayne.com/2009/05/26/sexual-harassment-is-bad-waitwhat-is-it-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4623</link>
		<dc:creator>karenrayne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 16:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Keely, I agree about public schools as they stand.  But I disagree that sex education is something that can never be taught appropriately in the public school system.  There needs to be parent education that goes hand-in-hand with the education for young people because most parents have never experienced high quality, comprehensive sexuality education and might not have a good reaction to the information that their children could bring home.  But the critical aspects of the education can all be brought together into the public schools: high quality teachers, solid curriculum and content, and substantial parent education.

Personally I see the ideal as one teacher in every school that does all of the sex education.  More teachers can be brought in, of course, if the size of the school warrants it - but the students should ideally be tracked with a teacher so that they have a consistent adult in this subject area.  There should be at least a year of sex ed in middle school if not two, and then another two years in high school.  My ideas are far-reaching and have the potential for far-reaching effects.  And yes, the current environment (particularly in Texas) is pretty hostile to this kind of education - but that surely does not mean we should not work towards it anyway!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Keely, I agree about public schools as they stand.  But I disagree that sex education is something that can never be taught appropriately in the public school system.  There needs to be parent education that goes hand-in-hand with the education for young people because most parents have never experienced high quality, comprehensive sexuality education and might not have a good reaction to the information that their children could bring home.  But the critical aspects of the education can all be brought together into the public schools: high quality teachers, solid curriculum and content, and substantial parent education.</p>
<p>Personally I see the ideal as one teacher in every school that does all of the sex education.  More teachers can be brought in, of course, if the size of the school warrants it - but the students should ideally be tracked with a teacher so that they have a consistent adult in this subject area.  There should be at least a year of sex ed in middle school if not two, and then another two years in high school.  My ideas are far-reaching and have the potential for far-reaching effects.  And yes, the current environment (particularly in Texas) is pretty hostile to this kind of education - but that surely does not mean we should not work towards it anyway!</p>
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		<title>By: Keely</title>
		<link>http://karenrayne.com/2009/05/26/sexual-harassment-is-bad-waitwhat-is-it-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4622</link>
		<dc:creator>Keely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 15:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As someone who worked in public schools for several years, I think this raises an important lawsuit issue for teachers and staff.  Frank discussions about harassment may help the students, but it would get parents calling lawyers and lawyers calling parents.  I know it sounds terrible, but the only force that seems to both guide young people AND withstand lawsuits is mass media--tv, music, movies.  People, in general, expect too much from a public school teacher.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As someone who worked in public schools for several years, I think this raises an important lawsuit issue for teachers and staff.  Frank discussions about harassment may help the students, but it would get parents calling lawyers and lawyers calling parents.  I know it sounds terrible, but the only force that seems to both guide young people AND withstand lawsuits is mass media&#8211;tv, music, movies.  People, in general, expect too much from a public school teacher.</p>
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		<title>By: Alice</title>
		<link>http://karenrayne.com/2009/05/26/sexual-harassment-is-bad-waitwhat-is-it-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4619</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 21:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As someone who was sexually harassed on a daily basis in middle school, I thank you for opening up the conversation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As someone who was sexually harassed on a daily basis in middle school, I thank you for opening up the conversation.</p>
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