Comments on: When’s the right age for a vibrator? How about a masturbation sleeve?

By: karenrayne

karenrayne — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 20:28:49 +0000

Little missy, why don’t you ask your friends with vibrators how they got theirs? I don’t really understand your mom’s reasoning. All humans have sexual needs - she must understand this to a degree because she has a vibrator - and learning about our bodies and sexual pleasure is something we do naturally. I hope you find your vibrator - if not now, then in a female-friendly sex shop on the day you turn 17!

By: Little missy

Little missy — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 16:52:01 +0000

Karenrayne, so i dont know if id be able to get it first or not, so i’ll have to try, thanks!
I talked to my mom and she wanted reasons. So i gave her a few and her responce was “all my friends that gave their children those, their children are sluts..” i know many people with them and they havent even kissed a guy. I dont get her reasons. She doesnt think it’s age appropriate and says ” i’d rather go and get you birth control” which she is totally against. I cant go to my dad because he didnt want daughters he wanted sons and he would just yell. But my mom said she didnt even want me to use my fingers that its slutty and dirty

By: karenrayne

karenrayne — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 08:49:25 +0000

Little missy, First I want to commend you for recognizing that even though your hormones are raging, you’re not ready for sex. I am so sorry that your parents don’t understand. It sounds like telling them you would like your own vibrator wouldn’t go over well. Do you have an older cousin or aunt or parent of one of your friends who you could confide in? The best way to get your own vibrator is through Amazon. If you don’t have a credit or debit card, you can ask for a gift certificate and order it yourself. You just need to be sure and grab the delivery before your parents do. Good luck!

By: Little missy

Little missy — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 04:43:45 +0000

Im 15 and my parents dont understand. Im not ready to have sex yet but my harmones are raging. I took one of their vibrators once and they destroyed my cell phone when they found out. I feel like i cant tell them that i want my own, im afraid they will think im crazy. Im the oldest i have a 13 year old brother and sister (twins) and they over react about my actions.. Any ideas?

By: Me

Me — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 01:21:42 +0000

Normal parent wow you and your wife are awesome parents! im 19, and yes i can tell you teens (most of them) will NOT talk to their parents about this stuff, so for you to basically give her stuff like that.. kudos to you! truly responsible..
lol and i TOTALLY agree about the politician thing!

By: karenrayne

karenrayne — Wed, 16 Feb 2011 19:35:25 +0000

Well done, Normal Parent! All around, I’m very impressed and delighted to hear about your openness and willingness for your kids to move through this time with access to knowledge and support but without a lot of parental pressure.

By: Normal Parent

Normal Parent — Wed, 16 Feb 2011 19:19:43 +0000

I am a 38 year old father of (3) kids, oldest boy 19, middle boy 16, and daughter 12.9 (tween); all of them reacted different to puberty, but survived without major issues. My boys, I just had to get on them about hygiene and not to use t-shirts as cum rags. I kept it real and somewhat funny, bought extra condoms and left them in my nightstand for them to steal. Whenever we would try to discuss sexuality openly one-on-one or as a family they would all run and hide or react as if they already knew it from school, and stopped talking about it… With the addition of the internet and easy access porn, I would say my 16 year old is very healthy, I have told him to stop looking at those pages but boys will be boys, so I warn them and then look the other way. He currently has no interest in dating, imagine that. However, my 12.9 year old daughter was a total spastic case; I have known that she has been masturbating since 9/10. I told only her mother (not her) and Mom felt it was time for a teen (self-help) book. Mom told me when she got her period and all hell broke loose, she cried for days about her body changing and that she didn’t want to grow up or anybody to know. Things calmed down life moved forward. Which leads me to this discussion, I noticed the other day Mom’s toy drawer was slightly opened, upon investigation and inventory of known items a small silver bullet (vibrator) was missing. I asked Mom (wife) to remove/relocate the heavy equipment and I recently replaced/purchased smaller safer age appropriate toys (egg, butterfly, and waterproof “AAA” bullet), reason for the “AAA” is she doesn’t have to come to us for batteries. All of it will remain in our drawer, but in reality it is all hers. Mom will keep them clean and loaded with fresh batteries; until such time we catcher red handed or she’s comfortable talking with us openly. Then we will cross that bridge and allow her to keep the items since she used them. Wink, wink… PS – The items were ordered online from Adam and Eve (Respectable) and should arrive this Friday (UPS – Discretely). Don’t really care about Nevada Law, 18 is legal for the Bunny Ranch, so I say Parent’s can overrule State Law when common sense and experience are in the best interest, Lord knows our politicians’ are retarded.

By: Jenna

Jenna — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 05:20:03 +0000

oh and yes i know about using the fingers and ive tried that and that doesnt feel that good to me

By: Jenna

Jenna — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 05:17:02 +0000

IM 12 and made the mistake of looking a porn just about a month ago but then found out that a lot of kids do it to since porn sites are getting so accsesible and honestly it made me want to explore my body which i was happy about since i geuss that is something i really should know all about considering it with me every where i go. But now ive gotten kinda intrested in mastrubating and would like a vibrator but again im only 12 and cant go by it my self and i would like to ask my dad because my mom isnt very nice so my dad is the one that takes me bra and tampon shopping but i think asking for a vibrator might be asking to much and i dont really want him to know about the porn stage of my life so what should i do?

By: Grace

Grace — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 12:19:53 +0000

Hi… I’m 14 and have been masturbating since I was around eight. I usually do it every night, and occasionally on weekend mornings. I have only ever been completely open about this with one friend, and it has made me feel better about my self-esteem and confidence in being a young woman already… I live with an older sister and my step-mother at my house. I still see my mom, but not too often because she is out-of-state. I feel awkward talking about sex with my step-mom, but it’s fine with my sister… I am pretty open with her, and was thinking about asking her to go to Spencers and get a vibrator or somrthing with me… I’m usually pretty quiet about this stuff, but I feel that I would enjoy masturbation more with it…