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Archives for February, 2008

Another reason to buy your teenager a dildo…
As promised yesterday, another reason to buy your teenager a dildo if she or he is inclined to seek one out.
Please note: While subtle and relevant, this television advertisement does contain sexual connotations.

Vibrators and dildos

Some time ago a teenager at the church where I worked approached me and asked if I would take her shopping for a vibrator. (Although she didn’t know the word for a vibrator, she alluded to it with a bright red face…) I thought it was great, and so took her (with her [...]

Sex education and the young ones

Generally children under 9-years-old ask questions about (1) things they have heard and seen grown-ups talking about and doing and (2) things their friends have heard and seen grown-ups talking about and doing. So the long and short of it, if the child is asking, as the adult you have to answer because the [...]

On teenage moms

I have been thinking a lot recently about teenage moms.
I wasn’t a teenage mom myself - I was 21 when I got pregnant - but I looked like a teenager, and was often treated like a teenage mom. In other words, strangers felt they could make derisive comments about (a) my assumed inability to [...]

Presidential campaigns…

So who are you going to vote for?
Here in Texas, we’re just over one week away from our primary/caucus, and everyone is going crazy. This is the first time I’ve really experienced such craziness in a presidential race. Generally, by the time the Texas primary/caucus roles around, the candidates have been defacto-chosen. [...]

Another great condom commercial!
The other day I was talking with someone about good video sex education content, and we started talking about the condom commercials I’ve posted here. That conversation got me started looking for good ones again, and I found this one. Hope you like it on this Friday morning!
To see the [...]

Morality in sex education

Rev. Debra Haffner wrote yesterday about her experience talking with teenage girls about sex and sexuality. One of the things she mentioned in her post was her five criteria for a moral sexual relationship:

consensual
non-exploitative
honest
mutually pleasurable
protected if any type of intercourse occurs

She went on to list the four things that are needed in a relationship [...]

Continued proof that they do it better in France

The Voices of American Sexuality Magazine blog posted yesterday about an exhibit about sexuality directed at the 9- to 14-year-old set at the French museum Cite des Sciences. You can experience some of the exhibit in an on-line, English-language form: Sex - Wot’s the big deal?
Now, looking over the exhibition site, it is highly [...]

What a boy wants

Conventional wisdom suggests that teenage boys have one thing on their minds. And it’s not history class. Statistics that support this theory abound: Teenage boys have testosterone surges multiple times a day. Teenage boys think about sex an average of every 28 seconds. The theories go on.
A study was recently [...]

This I Believe…

Thank you to everyone for your great comments about my This I Believe series. I really enjoyed reading your reactions, and I’ve changed some of what I wrote to incorporate your good ideas. I’ve posted the edited series permanently on it’s own page so new readers can see where I stand.
If you didn’t [...]