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Archives for January, 2008

Honoring adolescent sexuality

Yesterday I wrote about the Silver Ring Thing. Among other issues with this program, I talked about the Born-Again Virgin process, and how much I dislike it. One of the reasons I dislike it is because I think it teaches teenagers (and pre-teenagers) that sexuality is something you can annul. You can [...]

Born-again virgin

Several days ago I received an e-mail with this as the subject line: “Born-again virgin.” Now, I receive lots of e-mails about sex and sexuality, but this one subject line really impacted me. I even waited to read the e-mail until I felt I would be able to respond to the subject matter [...]

German condom commercials

Germans take sex education far more seriously than Americans. That is to say, they go ahead and bite the bullet and do real sex education rather than stuffing their fingers in their ears and humming loudly whenever anyone brings up the issue. This was made loud and clear to me in my recent [...]

Venetian Chastity Belts

One of the places I went on vacation was Venice. It was truly amazing. The history was immense and fascinating. Venice survived as a city state for more than a thousand years. Sometimes Venice managed this through its location (great for trade, extremely difficult to attack), sometimes through it’s extreme wealth [...]

Prudes or caretakers? Enfranchisement or detachment?

I am delighted to be back home and back at work in this New Year.
Thank you so much to Just Another Teen - I hope everyone enjoyed reading your posts as much as I did!
Later in the week, there are several topics I want to cover from my experiences on vacation (chastity belts in Italy [...]

Your questions, my answers! (Part 2)

(Written by guest blogger JustAnotherTeen.) 
“You seem very open, honest, and liberal, but you depict your parents as fairly rigid and conservative. How much do you think your parents impacted who you are and how did they do that? I like the person you present yourself as and I sense that you like yourself as well. [...]

Your questions, my answers! (Part 1)

(Written by guest blogger JustAnotherTeen.) 
Although this post was originally supposed to be for Friday, I got so many good questions on Wednesday that I did not feel they would all fit in one post. That said, I am still open to more questions for the rest of today or until about 10 PM Eastern time. [...]

Sex Education, or the lack thereof:

(Written by guest blogger JustAnotherTeen.) 
As many great teachers as my school may have, there is one that I absolutely cannot stand. I was supposed to take Health Education in my sophomore year and I really wish I had. Unfortunately it would not fit in my schedule till my junior year. The coach that left at [...]

My parents’ views on sex

(Written by guest blogger JustAnotherTeen.) 
My father is a minister and has been since he was 17. I will not name the denomination but it is obviously a Christian one and saying my parents are conservative is like saying the galaxy is big. Therefore, you can probably guess about the extent of sex ed I got [...]

Getting caught with my girlfriend: How not to react!

(Written by guest blogger JustAnotherTeen.) 
My girlfriend and I had been having sex for at least three months when finally we got caught. I was just about to go take a nice warm bath after we were done but we cuddled for a bit too long and her mom came in before she was dressed. This [...]