|Two teenage girls with an intense background in martial arts and street fighting created a video aimed at teaching teen girls how to protect themselves and get away from a potential abductor or a rapist. (The video can be downloaded for free, just follow the link from the banner on the left.) I have watched the 90 second preview and read the website. The video appears to include street fighting techniques that would be relatively easy for a teenage girl to use against a larger, stronger man, including ear slaps, eye jabs, and kicks to the groin.
However, I am concerned the video might not include a discussion of prevention-oriented behavior, particularly with regard to traveling alone, staying in well-traveled and well-lit places, and holding yourself confidently, supplemented with a discussion of the dangers inherent when teenagers and young women are impaired through drugs or alcohol.
My friend and neighbor Tom Parish had this to to say about the video:
So what to teach your teenagers about abductors and rapists? First, as Tom suggested, is an understanding of how to not need fighting skills. This can only be effective if the teenager is able to use the knowledge to make good choices. And I can’t stress the importance of maintaining full awareness as a critical step in that process (i.e., not being high or drunk). A really good martial arts school will include those skills in the training. I’m highly in favor of martial arts training for young women. It’s good for the mind and good for the body, even though the hope is that she will never have any call to use her training on the streets. (I like what this site has to say to teenagers.)
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I like that site, too.
Why do you suppose advice such as jab him in the eye is so widespread?
I’m not really sure, Alice. But I would expect because it’s a relatively effective way of getting someone to let go (instinctively protecting their eyes) and give you a minute to run (before they regain full vision). Street fighting isn’t something I know much about though.
The person that wrote the review did NOT watch the film. Prevention is covered quite thoroughly in the Movie.
He also stated that “they are just trying to sell a self-defense dvd”. If he had seen the movie, or even visited the site he would have noticed that there is no charge for the download or even the dvd. Not even shipping and handling.
A Teen girl did this for the benefit of other teen girls with no thought of benefit to herself. I know this is a foreign concept, but maybe others should give it a try, this might actually become a better world if they did.
Thank you for your comment, Maggie.
I’d like to put Tom’s comments in perspective for you. Tom’s a good guy, and he said at the beginning that he had not watched the entire thing – only the 90 second trailer. His comments were based on that. Tom used the wording “selling a DVD” to mean “getting people to watch a DVD.” He was aware it was free.
Nevertheless, I agree that it would have been better to have someone comment on the video who had seen the whole thing. If you are interested, I would love for you to contact me via e-mail to talk more about the entire film.
“However, I am concerned the video might not include a discussion of prevention-oriented behavior, particularly with regard to traveling alone, staying in well-traveled and well-lit places,”
I’m sorry, but that sounds like blaming the victim to me. When women stay at home at night because they can’t find someone to go out with, the rapists WIN. Once again, we’ve told women what they can and can’t do. Women should be able to travel with as many people as they wish, whereever they wish, without fear. The streets do not just belong to the thugs… they belong to EVERYONE. Same thing for the alleys. Women do not need escorts or protection in the form of another person. We need training and empowerment! Take back the alleys and take back the night!
Holding one’s head high is a VERY good thing. Walk with self respect and pride. Have your body language say “you don’t wanna mess with me”. If you get scared, pull out your cell phone or lace your keys between your fingers if you need some protection. (Being punched with keys between the fingers acting as knives… yeah, that would hurt.)
I live in a big city. I go out by myself at night, I come back late, and my walk back from transit is dark and a bit secluded at times. But I don’t let that stop me. I know I can protect myself, because I’ve learned skills. I won’t stop living my life because there’s a chance something might happen to me.
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