The New York Times has a recent article talking about “amazing girls.” These are the girls who are padding their college resumes beginning in 7th grade. They volunteer at Habitat for Humanity, Amnesty International, and their church, they take advanced classes in foreign language, science, English, and history throughout high school, they are in theater, band, student government, and participate in a rotating sports team as the season changes.
I am horrified by this. At the same time, I admit, I probably could have been classified as an over-achieving, resume-padder when I was in high school too. It’s hard to buck the trend, when college admissions (which, it seems at the time, will determine your successes and failures for the rest of your life) is looming.
I’m ready to slow my life down. And, as the article points out, so are many parents of amazing girls. So why are the teenagers pushing, pushing, pushing? I can only believe that this wouldn’t be as it is if adults weren’t pushing it in some way or another. So what I can do to slow teenage girls’ lives down? What can you do to slow teenage girls’ lives down?
And as long as I’m asking questions, what about the boys?